Breaking Down the Networking Myth
Networking can feel incredibly daunting for anyone, but for introverts, it often seems like an insurmountable challenge that is almost entirely avoided. Here at UNBC, with our intimate campus community, it could potentially be hypothesized as a social experiment designed to see who can climb some sort of invisible ladder to success. The prevailing myth, which is a subconscious belief that many of us hold, is that networking is solely an extrovert activity—implying that only extroverted personalities can thrive in this climate. This belief tends to further deter introverts from engaging in such activities, thus fostering unnecessary anxiety, stress and self-doubt for introverts. Trust me, I know the feeling. However, networking is an instrumental skill for all UNBC students, especially in today’s job market. To assuage some of these fears, here is a guide to connect with others successfully while staying true to your personality.
Leveraging Introverted Strengths in the Northern Community
As affirmed previously, we tend to approach networking as a form of extraversion expression, that is, we assume these situations are cultivated only for socialites. This belief can overshadow the strengths that introverts also possess in a communication-based setting, which often differ from extroverts but remain crucial nonetheless. At UNBC, introverts frequently excel at listening, observing, and forming meaningful relationships due to their tendency to maintain a smaller circle. These skills can be harnessed in building networks by leaning towards one-on-one discussions, intimate interactions or small group conversations that are just as relevant as other networking associations. Recognizing these innate skills is the first step towards achieving networking success without the need to conform to our segregated beliefs.
Quality Over Quantity: The UNBC Advantage
As an introvert at UNBC, you can leverage your ability to make unique, personal connections. Our university’s smaller size is actually perfect for this approach. Focusing on quality over quantity in these endeavours is the best fit, and is a phenomenon that can apply to all. However, due to our natural tendency to avoid big social interactions, determining what networks are of value to your personal growth is essential in forming quality connections regardless of how small these connections may be.
When attending big networking events such as the UNBC Career Fair or Northern Development Initiative Trust events, it is expected to have a large gathering of participants and organizations alike. Instead of avoiding the whole event completely, set realistic and achievable goals based on your personality style. Focus on identifying potential rather than measuring size in comparison to others. This allows you to form a clear direction on who you are looking to engage with, and do so authentically as you will be more keen to express your interests this way without the pressure of the social situation itself.
Practical Strategies for UNBC Students
If you’re feeling particularly overwhelmed just by the thought of attending these events, you can always consider bringing a fellow UNBC student along to serve as comfort and support during your discussions. Having a familiar face nearby can make the situation more relaxed while allowing you to express yourself more freely if you are too intimidated for a solitary encounter.
Coupled with this, you can utilize online networking platforms like UNBC’s LinkedIn alumni network or the Northern BC job boards where social relationships can be more controlled, starting with direct messages that are not at face value. It also shows strong intent when you express interest in an organization’s journey or mission, or communicate your drive that aligns with their mission. Remember that the goal is to inform and engage, but know what’s best for you. It is perfectly okay to prioritize your well-being and engage at a pace that feels best for you!
Embracing Your Style in the North
Networking does not have to be this unappealing terminology, especially within our unique northern community. You can transform it into something worthwhile based on your personal or professional interests, at a comfortable pace for you and fits who you are. Embrace your introversion and reform the act of networking from a source of discomfort into a more positive experience. UNBC’s close-knit community provides the perfect environment for introverts to shine – one meaningful connection at a time.
